The things I miss from home

As I think I've mentioned before, I come from western Pennsylvania. My friends are currently sending me texts, posting pictures on Facebook, and Snapchatting me pictures of the "Snowmageddon" (HAH!) mixed in with partly-joking death threats of how jealous they are of me living in the Caribbean. So to placate them (and because I'm feeling nostalgic), here's a list of the things I miss from home.

My view a few days ago.What snowstorm?

1. Obviously, my family and friends. But I sortof miss my pets more- my family understands why I felt and that I'm returning home at scheduled times (this April and Christmases). But the last time I saw my cat and my horses, I was in tears on Christmas Day and they had no clue why I was upset. Just thinking about that brings me to tears, and since I'm in the library surrounded by 40 other people, we'll just skip on ahead.
2. Snow. This is the winter season here on St. Kitts, which means it's 70-90 degrees with 75% humidity and a medium breeze, so it's tolerable for me...barely. The only precipitation is the daily rainstorms and sweat. Apparently it is almost intolerable here in August- there's no breeze and it gets even hotter. Plus the threat of hurricanes makes me yearn to build a snowman and igloos again.
3. Having semi-reliable transportation. My fellow VP and 1st semester students are looking up cars/scooters for sale while the going is good. I think I'll be able to survive until April without transportation or borrowing rides off of other people. But be warned- buying a car or a scooter is almost inevitable. There is a bus system that only costs $2.50EC or $1 US per ride, but it is infrequent and terrifying. And the buses only travel to port and back. Luckily there is a grocery store on the way, but it is one of the more expensive ones on St. Kitts, and if you go only when you need food, you will be stuck squished beside four other people in the backseat of an old bus with 15 grocery bags on your lap, hoping your milk (that expires in 2 days) won't break out of the bag. As for the buses themselves.... Friends from the states- you know that I am an awful driver. I'll only say this once: "The bus drivers here are quite possibly the worst drivers on the planet. Combine road rage with 80mph on a 20mph road filled with potholes, and you've never known true fear like this."
4. Privacy. When you begin your schooling here at Ross, you are provided housing on campus or off-campus if on-campus is filled or if you are bringing a pet down with you. The dorms are stereotypical of traditional college dorms. You can hear your neighbor get out of bed, start cooking bacon, singing in the shower (guilty). But you are only there for 4 months, after which you are required to find housing. Fortunately, I'm going to be rooming with a classmate who I really like and understands my need to occasionally belt Ed Sheeran or Queen songs, and my current roommates don't mind as long as I cook them food from time to time. I hope my future neighbors like good music...
5. Freedom. I have a lot of freedom down here. Freedom from being forced to skip vacations or trips because my pets needed fed. Freedom from (some) responsibilities. But I'm trapped by things stereotypical of a graduate school and of trying to be an adult. Wait, what? The Superbowl is today? Sorry, I have block exams tomorrow covering four classes, can't watch.
6. Playing the piano, singing music that's not on the radio, any music that's not reggae.
7. Simplicity. Perhaps the hardest thing about getting settled in a Caribbean island is that it is far more difficult to get anything done here. For example, many landlord do not accept US checks because they take 6 weeks to process. So you have to open up a bank account down here and request checks. Which I did. 6 weeks ago. The banks don't notify you when they have your debit card or checkbooks ready to be picked up, so you have to call them. But no one answers their phone down here- the "island time" struggle is real. So you have to find somebody to take you to the bank (at the exact location that you created the account, no sharing here!) in-between classes. You need to have a four hour block free, because that's how long it takes you to get through everything at the bank, and after 3 1/2 hours of waiting, the bank tells you they don't have everything together yet and if you could come back at a later point in time. If you go to a restaurant, be prepared to spend about 2-3 hours there. An hour to get your food, another hour or hour and a half to get your check, and more time devoted to waiting until they bring your change. It only gets easier to deal with because you get used to it.

Now, this list does not mean in any way that I hate being here. I love it down here- I thank God every day that I'm able to pursue my dreams, albeit in a different route than I thought I was going to take. So allow me to get back to studying with the knowledge that yes, you will miss a lot of things from home; but in this world, its all about the journey.

                                                                     After all, "If it were easy, everyone would be doing it."

“You are now at a crossroads. This is your opportunity to make the most important decision you will ever make. Forget your past. Who are you now? Who have you decided you really are now? Don’t think about who you have been. Who are you now? Who have you decided to become? Make this decision consciously. Make it carefully. Make it powerfully.” 

— Anthony Robbins